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Chances are, if you are filing divorce in Charleston or throughout South Carolina, that you have heard stories from friends, family, neighbors, co-workers, or acquaintances about their divorce experiences.  It is likely that some of these stories are frightening and some are encouraging, but whatever the case may be, it must be remembered that each divorce case is unique and has its own particular set of conditions. 

Whether the advice and warnings you received from others are valid or not, it is important to know that myths related to divorce are common and should not be taken as truths. 

Take a look at some of the common divorce myths provided below:

Myth:  A period of unhappiness in a marriage calls for a divorce.
Reality:  Just as every individual experiences ups and downs, so too do relationships.  Just because you and your spouse have experienced a rough time in your relationship does not mean that a divorce is an appropriate or necessary measure to take.  In fact, the grounds for divorce that exist in South Carolina are legal provisions that were created to avoid this myth being acted upon.

Myth:  Separation and divorce are the same thing.
Reality:  Although a separation divorce does address similar issues—such as determining child custody and visitation rights, child and spousal support, and the division of marital property (including both assets and debts)—they are distinctly different.  While a separation maintains the marital status of the spouses during marital dissent, a divorce terminates the marital relationship between two spouses and restores them to single status. If children are involved, it is in your best interest to seek skilled representation like that of child custody attorneys in Charleston, South Carolina, Bleecker Law Firm.

Myth:  Having a child together can help improve marital satisfaction and prevent divorce.
Reality:  While a child can have many positive effects on a marriage, a child is not and should never be used as a tool in a marriage.  One of the most stressful times that married couples recount is the period after the first child is born.  Each successive child, in turn, adds new complications.  If a married couple plans to have a child in order to prevent divorce, it is making a serious mistake.

Further information on SC Divorce Law: South Carolina Divorce Law Codes.

You should avoid letting these myths affect the decisions you make and the actions you take, as you consider or prepare for divorce.  Contact the Bleecker Law Firm, LLC, and let our qualified Charleston divorce & child custody attorneys guide you through your divorce, giving you the benefit of their extensive knowledge of divorce law and their vast experience.